There are going to be negatives at some spots during this kind of journey. Insensitive or pessimistic people. Infection or some other complication. This blog does not focus on those things. On the early advice of someone with wisdom, I have made it a strict rule to keep the focus positive and on my loved one. If I get off track, I bring myself back to the right focus as soon as possible. Plus, I don't feel any obligation to include friends or family or even medical professionals who don't have a tendency to be supportive or helpful.